• Woman on top 25 calories
• Doggy Style 40 calories
• Per gasp 3 calories
• Screaming 18 calories
• Urgent begging 22 calories
• Digging nails 11 calories
• Shaking 20 calories
• Licking 24 calories
• Real Orgasm 27 calories

(Source: girlslovesextoo, via trancemeow)

“She said that a man was once sitting by a stream and suddenly noticed a body floating down the river, barely alive. Instantly, he rushed into the water to save the person, dragging her onto the shores to safety. As soon as he had saved her, another body appeared, gasping for air. He spent all morning doing this, saving many but unable to rescue everyone, until it dawned on him to go upstream to see who was throwing all the people into the river. This, the lecturer said, is the difference between psychologists who study individual behavior in an effort to save some people from drowning and sociologists who study the social structures and processes that systematically propel people over the side of the bridge.”

this is a quote from my criminology book by Kitty Calavita.

this particular passage has been in the back of my mind forever… as much passion as i have for psychology, i do have my doubts. but now more than ever, the more i interact with people, the more faith i have in the effectiveness of therapy. that it can help if you let it.

we’re all fucked up. some of us more deeply than others. but we all have our own subconscious psychological issues. it’s nice, that sociologists think that just finding the source of this stream of dead bodies is enough. but what of the people who have already been affected? you need both. someone to fix the fundamental problems of society, and someone to fix those who are already broken.

ugh what is it with girls and wanting to fix everyone… x_____x